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Maybe Man.


Usually sounds like;
1. I don't know, you decide...
2. I'm not sure.

 3. I'm so sorry, i was with my guys.. ill make it up to you
4. Was going to but...
5. So what you wanna do ?

 Yeah, they all sound familiar probably, bottom line DON'T DATE A MAYBE MAN. Because he will always have another excuse just up his sleeve, that's his go to tactic, soon you're going to be in an "excusationship". there will always be a reason as to why he fell short again. I mean what are you doing at this age (I'm assuming you're in your 20's) with a man who can not make up his mind. chances are if his daily goals are this clouded his long term goals including you and the relationship are unfocused in his mind do. With one or both people being unclouded in the relationship it will soon get boring and a means to an end. 
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