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The first time you kissed her , She swore she loved only you And would do so for the rest of her life. When you proposed to her, You believed the tears were of joy. For your love  Your faith grew. Love you never knew . And you grew to trust. In her gestures, her innocent moans Her snoring. You fell in love  And you never knew Or suspected A few years later , You would see her speak of love  Like she never did you, She had eyes only for him now You never knew She wrote about him , Like she never did you Did she ever love you like him ?  When you look in her eyes You never doubt she will die for him  She never did you... But it warms your heart  As much as it scares you  Because you know now  She loves this you And give away her life To this little part of you Forever That you gave her. To make her mother...

"It can never be me" Until it's you . Don't be that person.

I respect the opinions of lots of my close family and friends . But lately I have come to the conclusion that for me to live my life , I cannot let the fears of others hold me hostage. Especially in their own beliefs . We can be so similar but so different and it's important that you remember that when taking crucial decisions. I have always viewed my relationships , romantic ones, as a personal and private affair . So it's always been so sensitive for me to ask of anyone for any advice unless I'm near rock bottom. The reason why is simple ; projection and sentiments. People most often project themselves (and without much context) into your situation and work from there. The only context they have going is their own similar but not the same experience and subsequently inject their fears and reservations into your decisions through their counsel . Truthfully, you end up feeling uneasy about their conclusion yet so guilty if you do not accept their counsel if you had be...